Love him when he admonishes you to wear the hijab. He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah’s Mercy when you leave the home.
Alhamdulillah. My future husband (at that time), once said to me. "Nanti u pakai tudung k. I sebenarnya suka tengok u tak pakai tudung. Tapi, u akan lebih cantik kalau u pakai tudung. Tak pakai tudung dengan I je ok."
Love him when he is jealous. Out of all the women he could have, he chose you to be his wife.
:). My husband susah nak jealous But he is too jealous with my past. At last, I am yours dear. Jodoh itu ketentuan Allah. Dari zaman belajar dulu u selalu cakap u tak faham kenapa I choose my past. Hint la tu u syok kat I kan?
Love him when he forgets that special occasion. For him every moment with you is special so he does not need an occasion.
Aduh! Terkena batang hidung beb. Honestly, last year I mengamuk sebab my husband tak wish pun my birthday. Tahun sebelumnya he just said, u zikir banyak-banyak ok hari ni. Dulu memang tak faham sebab I dah terbiasa with celebration and surprise. Tapi sebenarnya he teach me something that I dont realized. Bersyukur Allah panjangkan umur.
Love him when does not praise your cooking. He told you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.
Never praise but he finished my cooking. :). Tapi, kawan-kawan I cakap I masak sedap tau.
Love him when he does not reply to your questions. He does not want to hurt your feelings or is absorbed in thinking about your welfare.
This is one of my husband habits. Awal-awal dulu memang I mengamuk but now tidak lagi. Dah tak kuasa nak layan but still I love him for not saying or talking or answering my nonsence questions. Haha!
Love him when he is working till late. At least he comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his loving and caring arms.
This is one of my husband habits. Awal-awal dulu memang I mengamuk but now tidak lagi. Dah tak kuasa nak layan but still I love him for not saying or talking or answering my nonsence questions. Haha!
Love him when he is working till late. At least he comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his loving and caring arms.
Love him when he has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too (and maybe more).
Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was busier caring for the family
than grooming himself. By the way he is still cute!
Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is out earning a halal
(pure) income for the family.
Love him…when he looks beautiful. He’s yours to appreciate!
Love him…when he goes out in the Path of Allah. He is preparing a blissful
eternal home for you in Jannah.
Love him…when he does not comment when you get angry. He is a good
listener.
Love him…when he buys you gifts you don’t like. Smile and tell him it’s
what you’ve always wanted. He took the time and money out just for you!
Love him…when he has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with
wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help him change.
Love him…when he is irritable and moody. Buy chocolates, massage his back
and feet and just chat to him. He will become your slave!
Love him…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It’s like a storm; it
happens and will soon pass by.
Love him…when he drives so fast. He only wants you to be there in time.
Love him…when he extends his period of rest. He is re-charging himself to
serve you the best.
Love him…when he forgets to say “I love you”. He actually shows his love in
many other ways.
Love him…when he forgets to buy the bread or milk. He was rushing home to
be with you.
Love him…when he does not give you a chance to talk. He just knows what is
in your heart and what it is you want to say.
Love him…when he demands respect. After all he is the head of the house.
Love him…when he shouts at the kids. He only wants to ensure they are
corrected and have a good moral upbringing.
Love him…he is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a man’s character. Your Husband is part of your life
and should be treated as the King!
Almighty Allah Ta’ala says:
“And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among
yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love
and mercy between your (hearts)…” (Qur’an 30:21)
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported to have said:
"Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with her, will enter
Paradise.”(Hadith-Ibn Majah)
“If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her month (of Ramadan),
obeys her husband and guards her chastity, then it will be said to her: ‘Enter
Paradise by whichever of its gates you wish.”(Hadith-Ahmad and al-Tabarani)
“Pay attention to how you treat him (husband), for he is your Paradise and
your Hell.”(Hadith-13 Ahmad and al-Nisa’i)
“No human being is permitted to prostrate to another, but if this were
permitted I would have ordered wives to prostrate to their husbands, because of
the greatness of the rights they have over them.”(Hadith: Ahmad and al-Bazzar)
Don’t wait for that special occasion, take time NOW to make him feel
special in Every Way! Just give him a HUGE HUG and if he asks why then say: ”
It’s just because you are so SPECIAL.”
